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When sex is bad...........

Discussion in 'Female Quantum Biology' started by Jack Kruse, Jan 29, 2018.

  1. Lahelada

    Lahelada New Member

    Go commando in a skirt and use the albedo effect from reflective surfaces. ;)
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  2. JanSz

    JanSz Gold

    Statistically speaking
    Who have a better chance at good sex?
    Person in poor health with dis-regulated about everything?
    Or healthy, trim person with good hormone panel?
    And if only one partner is not properly functional, excuses, theories and hypothesis mounts quickly.

    First mechanical parts have to be properly adjusted
    after the mechanics are in good place
    one is able to work on feelings

    That goes for both sides.

    In my opinion it is really hard to get feelings right when the mechanics are not working, both sides.

    What is so personal when discussing estradiol, progesterone, prolactin or something in that category?

    You cannot write poetry if pen is not working or paper is crumbled.

    Last edited: Feb 5, 2018
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  3. drezy

    drezy New Member

    LOL. I'm qualified to speak for all straight men when I say that we don't mind. Heck, if he ever did chance upon such a sight your landlord might have gone and share his newfound "enthusiasm" with his wife or lady friend. It's the gift that keeps giving.

    That jogs this memory about reflective surfaces:

    Going commando in a skirt while walking on gold leaf. There you go.

    Following even just the most basic of Docs advice my wife and my n=2 can be described with the following diagram:
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  4. Billybats

    Billybats New Member

    Wooooow... Drezy.. I can't.. your killing me here.. lolhahahaha. I could just imagine you and my boyfriend meeting each other it would be nonstop crack me up, working off of each others crazy minds.
  5. drezy

    drezy New Member

    Life is too short not to get chuckles out of it.

    I think I know what you mean, but could you expand on "staged"? I get the whole trying to mimic entertainment angle, but are you implying a little more with that term?
  6. Jack Kruse

    Jack Kruse Administrator

    be a skeptic and use curiosity to illuminate optimal.
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  7. drezy

    drezy New Member

    Wow! Thank you for explaining your perspective for me.

    I think your "Hollywood" effect does hit guys a little too. We all just look 80lbs lighter to ourselves when we look in the mirror FYI.

    FWIW I'll stop laughing at stuff like this when I'm dead.
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  8. Billybats

    Billybats New Member

  9. drezy

    drezy New Member

    I wouldn't have understood as much as I do now. I appreciate the effort of explaining it.

    I have personally worked with men and have been confounded by their confidence of what females they think they are in par with. It's an amazing superpower.

    Also the thought of some dude secretly projecting the beads up bums idea when they themselves were desiring it is something that's kinda funny. @Mayuri was likely right about that. I wouldn't bet against her on this.
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  10. drezy

    drezy New Member

    Yes, we have corresponded privately about this. I want you to know that your sharing very positively influenced my wife and me.

    I always feel a little bad for the people who think this is a hit-and-run place for biohacks.

    The tapestry of human stories and experiences here is amazing. I'm glad I tuned in.
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  11. Jack Kruse

    Jack Kruse Administrator

    What brings you to life? Relationships.......connection and entanglement. All of these things are why embraced sex. Do stuff, be clenched, be curious. Stop waiting for inspiration's shove or society's kiss on your forehead. Pay attention because attention is vitality. It connects you with the cosmos just like the connection with sex.........it links us back to mitochondrial eve.
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  12. taiyang

    taiyang New Member

    my bottom line- i don't do anything with my partner unless i feel like it. that's it. if i don't feel like it, too bad.
  13. Lyndal

    Lyndal Gold

    Every body is unique, every sexual experience is unique. When it comes to sex, there is not a one size fits all approach.

    Sure there’s general ideas, rules, approaches, techniques, styles and so forth. You however, have to work out what fits you best.

    Sex is a journey, not a destination and sex, orgasm especially, doesn’t just happen in the vagina or the penis!

    Personal power, self responsibility, knowing ones own body - likes and dislikes - pain and pleasure, breath, communication, consent, mind power (for want of a better description), freedom to experiment, making mistakes, education, are key to how you can experience great sex. Let alone basic mental, physical, spiritual, emotional awareness.

    If you don’t know what works for you, how can you expect anybody else to? If you don’t trust yourself or your own body, how can you expect anybody else to? If you don’t know NO is a complete sentence, how can you expect anybody else to? If you don’t know your own boundaries, how can you expect anybody else to? Etc.,.

    Do you know you can orgasm without ejaculating?
    Do you know women can ejaculate?
    Do you know you can experience orgasm without even being touched, touching yourself?
    Do you know orgasm can last for as long as you’d like it to last? Hours?
    Do you know it’s ok to have sex purley for the pleasure of it. For the fabulous health benefits too?

    You probably do know all this. Just in case you don’t.

    Slut shaming is rife. Sex shaming in general is rife. Judgments are rife. Assumptions are rife. Moral high grounds are rife. Fear...fear...fear is rife.

    Just because I wouldn’t do a particular act you like doing or I choose to do a particular act, that you wouldn’t or don’t like doing, doesn’t make it wrong.

    Nudity is still such a taboo. Is it any wonder sex is a greater taboo?

    Thank you Dr J. K., these kinds of open dialogues are so important. I’d love to live in a world where we have discussions about sex, like we do our sports!

    There is some great porn happening out there now too. Real sex, not the Hollywood style.

    As for sex workers, they don’t need to be rescued. They are not broken. It’s a valid career path. If you think about it, if you’re in any kind of job, you’re selling your body, what’s the difference?

    As you can tell, this is an area I’m incredibly passionate about. I don’t claim to be any expert. I’ve been fortunate to have had my own sexual revolution ignited. I trust there is something of benefit in my sharing. :)
    Last edited: Mar 1, 2018
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  14. caroline

    caroline Moderator

    We have had some fantastic discussions here over the years. Have you read the oxytocin thread? the sex thread? girls in dresses thread? Have you listened to Jack's sex webinar? and the follow up Q&A?
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  15. Lyndal

    Lyndal Gold

    No Caroline, I haven’t as yet. Will definitely do so, thank you. Great to hear you’ve had some fantastic discussions over the years. I’m coming in late to the conversation!

    If there’s any way you could link me to the oxytocin and sex thread, I’d greatly appreciate it, as I’m having trouble finding those ones. I’ve found the girls in dresses one. Is the sex webinar the sex prescription one from May 2013?
  16. caroline

    caroline Moderator

    Let's talk about sex baby, let's talk about you and me, let's talk about sex . . .
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  17. Lahelada

    Lahelada New Member

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  18. Lyndal

    Lyndal Gold

    Thanks for the link Lahelada. I’ll have to read that thread too ;)
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  19. caroline

    caroline Moderator

    thanks for that ....I am spastic when it comes to finding links........

    Happy reading girls!
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  20. Jack Kruse

    Jack Kruse Administrator

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